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Parental Alienation vs Parental Alienation Syndrome

 

Parental alienation is any behavior by a parent, a child's mother or father, whether conscious or unconscious, that could create alienation in the relationship between a child and the other parent. Parental alienation can be mild and temporary or extreme and ongoing. Most researchers believe that any alienation of a child against (the child's) other parent is harmful to the child and to the target parent. Extreme, obsessive, and ongoing parental alienation can cause terrible psychological damage to children extending well into adulthood. Parental Alienation focuses on the alienating parents behavior as opposed to the alienated parent's and alienated children's conditions.

This definition is different from Parental Alienation Syndrome as originally coined by Dr. Richard Gardner in 1987: "a disturbance in which children are preoccupied with deprecation and criticism of a parent-denigration that is unjustified and/or exaggerated." Parental Alienation Syndrome symptoms describe the child's behaviors and attitude towards the targeted parent after the child has been effectively programmed and severely alienated from the targeted parent.

*Parental alienation, on the other hand, describes the alienating parent's or parents' conduct which, combined with distance and time induces parental alienation syndrome in children*

What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?


PAAO-US Thanks ALL Governors for Proclaiming PAAD

A Special Recognition to Governor Joe Manchin of West Virginia for his exemplary leadership in helping stop a behavioral form of child abuse. 


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Forms of parental alienation include:

  • brainwashing
  • character assassination
  • the false inducement of fear
  • incitement of shame,
  • using children to commit relational aggression against the target parent
  • loss of self control
  • flareups of anger
  • unconscious alliances with the children against the target parent
  • delibrate denigration of the children's relationship with the target parent
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    Alabama
    2008
    Gov. Bob Riley  Alabama
    2009 
    Arkansas
    2008
    Gov. Mike Beebe   
    Connecticut
    2007
    Gov. Jodi Rell  
    Florida
    2007
    Gov. Charlie Crist  
    Georgia
    2008
    Gov. Sonny Purdue   
    Indiana
    2007
    Gov. Mitch Daniels Indiana
    2009
    Iowa
    2007
    Gov. Tom Vilsak  
    Kentucky
    2007
    Gov. Ernie Fletcher  
    Maine
    2006
    Gov. John Baldacci  
    Maryland
    2008
    Gov. Martin O'Malley   
    Mississippi
    2008
    Gov. Haley Barbour  
    Montana
    2007
    Gov. Brian Schweitzer  
    Nebraska
    2007
    Gov. Dave Heineman  
    Nevada
    2007
    Gov. Jim Gibbons  
    West Virginia
    2008
    Gov. Joe Manchin, III   
    Bermuda Islands
    2007
    Hon. Dale Butler  

     

     

     

     

     

    The Governor of your state has signed this Parental Alienation Proclamation to acknowledge the existence of Parental Alienation within the community, and that Parental Alienation is a very severe form of Child Abuse.  The Governor, by signing this document, has stated that he will work to fight against Parental Alienation, to minimize the damage or harm that it causes our children.  The Governor is also setting an example for all of us to follow his lead and do our best to further the understanding of this form of child abuse.

     Parental Alienation violates the ‘child’s best interest’, which is a community standard written into law that cannot be compromised.  To the alienated parent, it is a written document confirming their value as a “loving parent”.  To the alienated child, it is a message to say, we know that you suffer, and we are working towards helping others understand you, so we can one day free you from your torment and pain.

              

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

      

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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